What an interesting predicament you find yourself in. If it were me, I would appreciate the privacy the trees offered, but I would still want either my own indoor garden or small area to call my own. At the same time, the local co-opp garden would be a fantastic opportunity to both get out of the house and to meet people being in a new neighborhood.

Yes, I know I didn't answer your question But I'm sure you'll follow your heart and be happy.